I don't understand why an actor's forum is so strict?

I was getting very angry because the admin kept limiting me. they said my comments are too many, and I should do an intro. After I have done an intro, due to the poor structure I didn't know where to post that. Now the feedback is members are wary and I sound rude. I did not use vulgar language, how can it be rude? Supposed to be a leisure site yet so much censorship. My friends said they are friendly?